http://www.comatised.com/index.php/2009/06/30/dark-illusions/ ... equipped with laptop, blog, camera and her sense of Wonder, a perpetual goddess wanders aimfully on ... Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:30:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.comatised.com/index.php/2009/06/30/dark-illusions/comment-page-1/#comment-93 Dorothy L Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:41:07 +0000 http://www.comatised.com/wp/index.php/2009/06/30/dark-illusions/#comment-93 Hey girl...it seriously does suck when you try to help the death and dumb(no offense meant to anyone). So where to go and what to do when you find yourself dealing with people that for no good reason waste your time and energy. You simply tell yourself that by giving your advice and sharing your thoughts...your job is done. That is all you have to do. What they do with that advice is all up to them. If they choose to jump off a cliff...you cannot stop them. They do not owe you anything because you gave them your advice...unless of course you are charging for it..(wink) You cannot make them hear you nor can you make them appreciate you. You can however not allow their reactions and opinions affect you...that you can do. It also really helps to steer clear of negative people...they are like any other sickness...they are looking for misery to be their best company! Many of those types of people i label as 'users'. They are not worthy of good intentions. Hey girl…it seriously does suck when you try to help the death and dumb(no offense meant to anyone).
So where to go and what to do when you find yourself dealing with people that for no good reason waste your time and energy.
You simply tell yourself that by giving your advice and sharing your thoughts…your job is done. That is all you have to do. What they do with that advice is all up to them. If they choose to jump off a cliff…you cannot stop them. They do not owe you anything because you gave them your advice…unless of course you are charging for it..(wink)
You cannot make them hear you nor can you make them appreciate you. You can however not allow their reactions and opinions affect you…that you can do.
It also really helps to steer clear of negative people…they are like any other sickness…they are looking for misery to be their best company!
Many of those types of people i label as ‘users’. They are not worthy of good intentions.

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