Continued Drama
I apologise in advance for anyone who reads this and is sick and tired of all of this. I have been dealing with this for over a month now, and I do not particularly enjoy it, especially at this time in my life. I wish that anything else in the world was happening but this, however, I do not tolerate liars. I do not tolerate thieves, especially those on the web who feel this is particularly funny or a good thing to do. I hope this is the last time I have to post about this, and I have been in touch with the EntreCard head of support over this matter.
If anyone gets any email from the EntreCard user and known liar Recycled Frockery, is sending out emails to various EntreCard users because I banned her for stealing my personal photos, coming here on a proxy to attempt to bash me under other EntreCard user names, lying, continuing to lie, and then stalking and (I assume) trying to trap me into a bogus cyber romance. She is sending out the following to EntreCard users:
It saddens me that she is that angry, that spiteful over something I was not even involved with, but that she argued with Matt over. I was not even online the day she started this. I have nothing to do with it, except being the brunt of her abuse and lies.
However, I do not drop on any of her known sites. Of course, she has about ten domains, so there’s a good chance she’s got multiple accounts on EntreCard and I am dropping on one of her sites and not knowing it. I do not visit any of her known sites, in fact, I take extra precautions to not visit her sites by avoiding the entire LifeStyles category on EntreCard all together.
On September 7, about a week ago I banned her IP after my image reporting system emailed me to inform me that more of my images were being uploaded to recycledfrockery.com. Bluehost.com will do nothing about this, even though they know their customer is in the wrong. They have admitted this to both myself and Matt. They want me to scan/fax my ID and give them a copy, yet I know they will simply turn over their findings to that woman, and I don’t feel comfortable in doing so. Based on her insane behaviour online, I feel that the last thing I need is her doing the same, or worse, in the real world.
Being banned, she is probably seeing this page or my forbidden error.
I feel banning her was my right, and I was not wrong in doing so. Particularly in the sense that I have discovered her taking my personal images, such as those of my husband and myself, and the fact that several weblogs in my online pen name have popped up with the images Auset stole directly from this site. On the weblogs, there are mentions of me injecting my children with heroine, Doc Mick being my drug dealer, me having sex with Doc Dan (um, ew!), that I am making a dooms-day device either in my basement or work (!!) and various other sick little twists. I assume the ultimate goal is to forward this to my boss or my husband to make trouble for me in the real world. I dunno. I’ve never been that mentally ill, so I dunno what her motive is, other than she needs a hobby (something other than lying her ass off) and she needs to turn off the computer and discover that big, busy world out there.. I was over this a month ago.
For someone 25 years older than I am, this person certainly has a lot of time on their hands as well as being vindictive, vicious, and a predator. I have never met anyone so obsessed with taking me down in my entire life, and I hope I never run into someone this insane again.
If this person contacts you about me, please forward the email or file a complaint with the head of EntreCard support, Andrew, at drewte gmail. Also, because of a more serious matter, I need all her correspondence forwarded to me: jamierawks@gmail.com
I sent her this email, which I feel is very reasonable, a few moments ago. I sent it to her host’s abuse center, as well as her ISP’s abuse center. Though I doubt they will do anything about it. She is now bribing people to get me thrown off the web. Where does the hatred come from?
“Dear Auset,
To let you know, I get 450+ visitors per day 99% of the people who visit my site do so without any problems.
I banned your IP and all proxies on my site on September 7, 2010 because you took content from my site, uploaded it to your own, lied about me and you continued to do this until the day I banned you. For someone who dislikes me as much as you do, for something I did not do, you seem very concerned with me, and that scares me. I have no desire for you to visit my site, steal my images and write lies about me. I have no desire for my content to be republished, without my permission, on another site, with lies attached to them. As a writer, you should know that is unethical as well as illegal. It is called copyright infringement.
Do not try to tell me that you did not take my content; I have proof that you have. Bluehost.com is also my witness to this.
Do not try to tell me you enjoy my site, because you do not. You are now bribing people to help you take me down? That is ridiculous. They simply warned me about you.
You have written lies about me; trying to make me into something that I am not because I have pain medication for cancer.
I have, however, been in personal contact with the head of Entrecard support. This war you think you are having with me is ridiculous. Why are you doing it? What do you hope to gain from this? What is the point? What started it? Was it because you thought I warned or caused you a warn back in August? That was not me, and it was not held against you in the Entrecard system. It did not have to go further than the system’s private messaging service, and you’ve made a mountain out of a mole hill. Just so you know, bluehost.com is not backing you up with your claim that they installed the script on your site that banned people, but that is beside the point.
As for your complaint about me buying ad space from you, had I known that you had multiple domains on Entrecard, I would not have done so. I have no desire to communicate with you or be associated with you at all. In fact, I avoid entire parts of EntreCard so that I do not visit sites that I knew belonged to you.
I am uncertain why you want to continue this. I do not post about you, but I will and do defend myself, when necessary. I have proof of everything I have posted and I am keeping records of it, should this go offline, which would be your move, since I have never taken the first blow in all of this, just swung back. I have to ask why you choose to do this. You claimed on your recycled frockery site that you considered me a friend, yet these actions are not that of someone I would have ever considered an associate, never mind a friend.
I am also uncertain as to why you would want to continue to visit the site of someone you hate as much as me. I have never experienced so much hatred in my life, and I have worked in psych wards and moderated drama communities. Where does this hatred come from? Who taught you to hate like this? Why hate someone you have never met face to face? That I do not understand. I do not hate you, even after all of this. I do not even dislike you. I forgive you. I feel that you are missing something in your life, and you think you are filling that void by bashing me and trying to take me down.
My advice is that you go outside for a while. Throw a ball around. Go to a bookstore and mingle with flesh and blood people. If you want to start a revolution and fight against someone or something, get involved with politics or a campaign to fight cancer. Picket outside prisons or outside the homes of sex offenders. Don’t do it by blogging about someone who has done nothing to you and you do not personally know.
Despite what you choose to do, I hope you find peace in your life and mind. I hope you learn to overcome that hatred you have for me. If you hold onto hatred for very long, it will take a hold of you. It will consume you and make you a lonely person. I know this from experience.
I am also sorry it has come to this — I looked back through some of the comments you left me, and they were nice. It is too bad that your current actions have jaded this. You seemed like a nice, awesome person.
I have to ask you to not attempt to visit my site, and if I know of any site of yours I will not visit it or drop on it. I also have to ask you to remove any content that you have uploaded of mine anywhere. If you are the owner of “The Drug Slut Jamie” on Blogspot, please remove that too. I do not think you are, I think someone is setting you up, but if I am wrong and you control it or knows who does, please remove it.
You may consider this your notice that I want my content removed and I no longer want to correspond with you.
Jamie
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This email was intentionally sent to the following people:
ausetkmt@gmail.com
drewte@gmail.com
jamierawks@gmail.com
cattyx.matty@gmail.com
abuse@bluehost.com
abuse@comcast.com”
She owns the pod131.com as well. O-O
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She’s sick. Why is she doing this to you?
I’m the one who fucked her over! She’s such a stupid bitch
Entrecard has an autimatic redirect so a plain url: http ://comatised.com is redirected to http: //www.comatised.com
When I take a new browsertag and enter only http://comatised.com I get nothing but one of those google list pages.
Did you change your dns settings at your host to redirect the socalled naked url to the www. one?
I’ve had the same hosts since 2001. They’re only human, so there could be an error on their end. I sent them an email about these errors. Regardless of what errors people get when trying to visit my site, that’s no excuse to steal my images, make a fake blog in my name, write sleezey entries in it, and then attempt to email it to my real life friends and family. Or bribing people with money and entrecard credits to take me down in the real world. It’s only the net. That’s just going overboard.
I’ve tangled with a few bloggers in my time. In the long run I found it best to avoid these confrontations. (Sometimes it can’t be helped and you just want to pound somebody, anybody for their stupidity!) Here’s hoping you can resolve your conflict without further harm!
That would be ideal, except this person is utterly crazy and wanted to take this offline by offering people cash and credits with a site they voluntarily participated in, in exchange for information to destroy me online and off over something that didn’t amount to shit and I didn’t even do.
Is it true that you are the new owner of entrecard?
haha…no. They just agree on me that this woman’s behaviour towards me was unacceptable and a risk for other users should they disagree with her in any way. I’m glad they stood by me through this.
Are you aware that you write REALLY well? That was superb! I mean not just the eloquence, but the content. Well said!
As far as “recycled” goes, she’s most definitely hate-filled and someone to avoid. I still can’t believe that she took personal photos from your blog and posted them with her sick, judgemental comments. I don’t understand why she isn’t banned from entrecard.
Thank you! Writing is what I do part time.
It also helps that I had no emotion when I wrote that. As far as damage is going, nothing has happened other than I got about five more hits to my site. Drop in the ocean.